77 Self-Care Quotes to Remind You to Take Care of Yourself
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Self-care. It is an important topic most people do not spend enough time thinking about.
You may be the most “put together” and “with it” person for miles around, But that doesn’t mean you don’t need some self care. It probably means you are already, giving yourself your needed self care and that is why you are so able to project so much awesomeness every day.
This collection of self-care quotes are meant to inspire you to go out and actually care for yourself. These quotes on self care are designed to show you a thing or two about what is meant by self care in general and also to show you some of the nuances with emotional self care, spiritual self care, physical self care and pampering self care. (And if you'd like to learn more about this concept, then I recommend checking out these 274 self-care ideas and activities.)
Self care should always come first in your life.
Self care should always come first, but don’t let this lead you to thinking that self-care is “selfish”.
I think of self care like the airplane mask warning. When emergencies happen and the mask drops from the ceiling you are supposed to help yourself first. Then proceed to help others to put on their masks.
The idea is that if you help others first, and fail, then there are two people out of commission. While if you take the time for a bit of self-care first (in the case of the plane putting on the gas mask) then you will be okay and in a position to help others more effectively.
Well, enough talking about self care for now. Let’s jump right in by looking at some self care quotes. We will start out with emotional self care quotes.
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Emotional Self-Care Quotes
“Solitude is where I place my chaos to rest and awaken my inner peace.”
– Nikki Rowe
“Allow yourself to enjoy each happy moment in your life.”
– Steve Maraboli
“And now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.”
– John Steinbeck
“Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness.”
“No more martyring myself.”
– Sharon E. Rainey
“Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves.”
– Nathaniel Branden
“Self-care is how you take your power back.”
– Lalah Delia
“Take time to do what makes your soul happy.”
“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.”
– C. JoyBell C.
“Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.”
“When we self-regulate well, we are better able to control the trajectory of our emotional lives and resulting actions based on our values and sense of purpose.”
– Amy Leigh Mercree
“When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.”
– Jean Shinoda Bolen
Negative emotions can eat a hole in our souls. If you body and mind have been taking an emotional beating, you will certainly need a bit of self care and well-being to get over it.
The term “self care” seems a bit indulgent to some. It reminds them that part of self care can be pampering and relaxing. Things like getting a massage, pedicures and relaxing in a hot tub.
They mistake that thoughts that these can be needed breaks from a hectic life and not styles of life to repeat on a daily basis.
However, admitted some self care does take place on a daily basis. In fact, you may be doing daily self care and just not admitting it. Invigorating morning routines, for example, are just a series of self care ideas done at a specific time every day to try and get the most of the self care and have it form the largest possible positive impact on your body, mind, soul and your day.
Quotes about Taking Care of Your Body
“When the well’s dry, we know the worth of water.”
– Benjamin Franklin
“Those who think they have not time for bodily exercise will sooner or later have to find time for illness.”
– Edward Stanley
“It’s good to do uncomfortable things. It’s weight training for life.”
– Anne LaMott
“An empty lantern provides no light. Self-care is the fuel that allows your light to shine brightly.”
“Everybody is different, and every body is different.”
– Beverly Diehl
“Do something every day that is loving toward your body and gives you the opportunity to enjoy the sensations of your body.” – Golda Poretsky
“How do you define ‘taking care of yourself’? Create a new self-care practice today. Observe your comfort level when it comes to being good to yourself. Discomfort is a wise teacher.”
– Caroline Myss and Peter Occhiogrosso
“Your breathing is your greatest friend. Return to it in all your troubles and you will find comfort and guidance.”
“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.”
– Anne Lamott
“Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths.”
– Etty Hillesum
You may have a perceived notion that self care is all about tending to ephemeral mental “ouchies”.
This is not true. It is also about dealing with, AND PREVENTING physical “ouchies” too. When we are hurt, or our muscles strained to exhaustion, we need a bit to TLC to get them back in shape. This TLC, as you can see from this collection of quotes about taking care of body, often comes in the form of preventative self care.
The self care quotes on this page show us time-and-again that self care takes many forms. Let me show you an example. Below are some of my popular posts.
Each one is trying to teach you something specific that is NOT self care. But I would also argue that most of the topics could just as easily be talking about “self care” because anything you do to improve your personal mind, body or spirit really falls into the “self-care” category.
44 Experts Share their Favorite HEALTH HABITS
What is a health habit. Any habit that is done on a regular basis that makes us healthier day-to-day. Check. I would also call that self care.
192 Healthy Habits
Same as above, Simply put if it is designed to improve your body, health, fitness, longevity or mental attitude what could you call it other than self care?
9 Psychological Tricks to Develop a Fitness Habit
Okay this one is not directly about self care. But it gives you plan for crafting a “fitness habit”. Something like running or daily walking, which are just forms of self care. So it teaches you some ideas on how to get self care into your day.
15 Habits to Improve your Daily Workout
Like above this is more about process improvement of habits or “self-care” but these same techniques can always be used to health and fitness self care ideas.
See self care is always around us. You might just know it by other names.
Inspirational Quotes for Self Care and Self Love
“Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort.”
– Deborah Day
“Self-compassion is simply giving the same kindness to ourselves that we would give to others.”
– Christopher Germer
“Learning to love yourself is like learning to walk—essential, life-changing, and the only way to stand tall.”
– Vironika Tugaleva
“When you are compassionate with yourself, you trust in your soul, which you let guide your life. Your soul knows the geography of your destiny better than you do.”
– John O’Donohue
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”
– Jack Kornfield
“People who love themselves come across as very loving, generous and kind; they express their self-confidence through humility, forgiveness and inclusiveness.”
– Sanaya Roman
“Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.”
– Anna Taylor
“Accept yourself. Love yourself as you are. Your finest work, your best movements, your joy, peace, and healing comes when you love yourself. You give a great gift to the world when you do that. You give others permission to do the same: to love themselves. Revel in self-love. Roll in it. Bask in it as you would sunshine.”
– Melodie Beattie
“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”
– Bell Hooks
“You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”
“Self love is asking yourself what you need – everyday – and then making sure you receive it.”
“Love yourself first, and everything else falls in line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”
– Lucille Ball
“Acknowledge, accept, and honor that you deserve your own deepest compassion and love.”
– Nanette Mathews
“There are days I drop words of comfort on myself like falling leaves and remember that it is enough to be taken care of by my self.”
– Brian Andreas
“The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.”
– Steve Maraboli
“Whatever you are doing, love yourself for doing it. Whatever you are feeling, love yourself for feeling it.”
– Thaddeus Golas
“Learning to treat ourselves lovingly may at first feel like a dangerous experiment.”
– Sharon Salzberg
“When we give ourselves compassion, we are opening our hearts in a way that can transform our lives.”
– Kristin Neff
“You are a VIP, a very important person so take care with self care. If not you, who? If not now, when?”
– Toni Hawkins
How do you feel about these inspirational self help quotes. I just love them. I have always been a fan of inspirational quotes. There is just something about the way good inspirational quotes are put together that I love. They not only inform, but they make you want to take immediate action.
Now we have another series of important quotes. These quotes about taking time for yourself. This is a biggie in self-care.
To prosper and thrive we all need a little bit of “me time” to recharge our batteries. Literally and figuratively.
But enough from me. Lets see some experts quotes about taking time for yourself.
Taking Time for Self Quotes
“Caring for your body, mind, and spirit is your greatest and grandest responsibility. It's about listening to the needs of your soul and then honoring them.”
– Kristi Ling
“There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.”
– Aldous Huxley
“Invent your world. Surround yourself with people, color, sounds, and work that nourish you.”
– Susan Ariel Rainbow Kennedy
“How we care for ourselves gives our brain messages that shape our self-worth so we must care for ourselves in every way, every day.”
– Sam Owen
“My mother always says people should be able to take care of themselves, even if they’re rich and important.”
– Frances Hodgson Burnett
“The love and attention you always thought you wanted from someone else, is the love and attention you first need to give to yourself.”
– Bryant McGillns
“We need to replace your vicious stress cycle with a vicious cycle of self care.”
– Dr. Sara Gottfried
“Self-discipline is self-caring.”
– M. Scott Peck
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”
– Audre Lorde
“I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival.”
– Audre Lorde
“It's not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It's necessary.”
– Mandy Hale
“When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits – anything that kept me small. My judgement called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving.”
– Kim McMilllen
“Self-care is never selfish, but it may feel that way when you live a frenzied life.”
– Arthur P. Ciaramicoli
“Put yourself at the top of your to-do list every single day and the rest will fall into place.”
“With every act of self-care your authentic self gets stronger, and the critical, fearful mind gets weaker. Every act of self-care is a powerful declaration: I am on my side, I am on my side, each day I am more and more on my own side.”
– Susan Weiss Berry
“One of the best ways you can fight discrimination is by taking good care of yourself. Your survival is not just important; it's an act of revolution.”
– DaShanne Stokes
“The only person you shouldn't be able to live without is you.”
– Chris McGeown
“Take the time today to love yourself. You deserve it.”
– Avina Celeste
Finally we have the form of self care that isn’t self care. Quotes about self care from caregivers.
A case could be made that this is not truly self care. It is just care. I acknowledge to that argument. Semantically it is true. But if we cannot, or will not perform self care on ourselves, there are many people out there that may help.
Who are the caregivers. When you think of self care and caregivers, your mind probably jumps to an old age home and someone in their final years needing a lot of self care help. While this is part of self care and caregivers, I would argue it is a small part.
The biggest self care caregivers are parents. They start doing everything for you, then slowly educate and teach you to find what you need and perform your own self care.
Then there teachers, doctors, psychologists, drill instructors, bosses, HR people, massage therapists, hair stylists, payroll people… the list goes on of people who do things for you (and teach you things) that could or should become part of a self care routine.
So now that you are on to the wider meaning of “caregivers” in the sense of self help. Let’s take a look at some of the self-care quotes for caregivers shared in the final section below.
Self-Care Quotes for Caregivers
“Anytime we can listen to true self and give the care it requires, we do it not only for ourselves, but for the many others whose lives we touch.”
– Parker J. Palmer
“Self care is not a waste of time. Self care makes your use of time more sustainable.”
– Jackie Viramontez
“Rest and self-care are so important. When you take time to replenish your your spirit it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.”
– Eleanor Brownn
“The perfect man of old looked after himself first before looking to help others.”
– Chuang Tzu
“Self Care is the secret ingredient to Soldier care in a recipe that yields many servings of effective leadership.”
– Donavan Nelson Butler
“In dealing with those who are undergoing great suffering, if you feel “burnout” setting in, if you feel demoralized and exhausted, it is best, for the sake of everyone, to withdraw and restore yourself. The point is to have a long-term perspective.”
– Dalai Lama
“Self-care is a deliberate choice to gift yourself with people, places, things, events, and opportunities that recharge our personal battery and promote whole health—body, mind, and spirit.”
– Laurie Buchanan, PhD
“Self-care is not selfish. You cannot serve from an empty vessel.”
– Eleanor Brownn
“Don’t sacrifice yourself too much, because if you sacrifice too much there’s nothing else you can give and nobody will care for you.”
– Karl Lagerfeld
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