As kids, many of us had a tendency to associate being responsible with being grown-up. In fact, the two went hand in hand, as far as I was concerned. People like our parents, grandparents, teachers… they were responsible. They had jobs, cars, homes. They took care of us. But when I was in high school, … Read more
When I was 28, I got laid off from my favorite full-time job. I left work that day in tears, thinking my professional life was over. I felt betrayed by my colleagues, with whom I had become extremely close. My boss, a big sister of sorts, all of a sudden felt like a stranger. I … Read more
Technology has had an amazing impact on our lives in the last decade—especially when it comes to “connecting” to the world and accessing information. Never before has it been so easy for people from such disparate places as Jakarta, Indonesia, and Branson, Missouri to connect and share their opinions with one another. With the advent … Read more
I have a good friend who recently gave birth to her fourth child, a baby boy. She and her husband waited until he was born to find out the sex of the baby, and the results came as a surprise to friends and family, as many had bet on their final child being a girl. … Read more
Think about the last time you listened to someone talk who was really angry. Whether they were venting to you or they were speaking to a crowd, I’m willing to bet that they sounded very convinced that their opinion or feelings represented some kind of truth. I’m also willing to bet that they were trying … Read more
One classic commercial from the 80’s-90’s that you probably remember (if you’re of age) was for Klondike bars. I’m sure you can recite the song in your head: What would you do-oo–o…for a Klondike bar! There was a whole series of these commercials portraying people doing silly things such as acting like a chicken or … Read more
It is not easy to look at yourself in the mirror and see that you are the one who is being controlling in a relationship… whether that relationship is romantic, familial or friendly. Part of the reason is that the characteristics of someone who is controlling doesn’t always present in the same way. Being controlling … Read more
We’re living in uncertain times, and this uncertainty can bring about feelings of fear and anxiety for many people. Being afraid is a natural human reaction. However, constantly feeling afraid or anxious can greatly affect our well-being. Research has shown that listening to music can effectively reduce anxiety levels in people going through stressful situations. … Read more
Life can take you on some truly interesting journeys. It is always better if you have some wonderful friends who can go along with you during the ride. On the other hand, I think you will agree with me when I say that having fake friends can really make for an unpleasant journey. Therefore, you … Read more
What was your first impression of your current best friend? What about your partner? Your boss? Did these initial assumptions end up being spot on? Maybe, but I know several people whose first impressions of the person they ended up marrying was NOT one that had them imagining the future. But others, the moment they … Read more