How the Mini Habits Book and Concept can Change Your Life
A month ago, I read Stephen Guises’s book Mini Habits: Smaller Habits. Bigger Results. What I loved about the content was Stephen’s emphasize on how small changes can have an amazing impact in your life. His “mini habit” concept is something I’ve incorporated into my life. And so far, it has worked really well.
Recently I asked Stephen to post a few articles regarding mini habits. In fact, he’s now a regular contributing writer to DevelopGoodHabits.com. And here’s the first of his posts…
Hi, my name is Stephen.
For 209 days in a row, I’ve exercised 3-6x a week. For 123 days straight and counting, I’ve read and written quite a bit. I don’t burn out or miss days (not even Christmas).
This isn’t bragging—not even close—because my success isn’t due to being “extra special.” My success is due to something special I’ve found.
One semester in college, I didn’t buy any of my classes’ books; I attended only exam days in one class so I could play more Halo 3. I was happy to get B’s and higher that semester. Looking back, I don’t blame myself for slacking off, because I wasn’t the problem. I’m not avoiding responsibility here, but clarifying a truth rarely spoken:
We succeed or fail not by our inherit merit, but by our life strategies. (Tweet This!)
If you’ve been failing to do what you want to do in life, don’t be so quick to blame yourself. We like to attribute success or failure to ourselves, but that focus is misguided. Think about it: you are going to be you. Your behavior and abilities are predictable.
When people try to change, they usually try to get amped up for the change, but no matter how badly you want the change, you haven’t changed yet! As motivation wanes, so does progress. You don’t need more motivation, you need a strategy that can leverage the abilities of the current you into a better you.
On Decemeber 28, 2012, I was a sad person, sitting on my bed and wishing for the motivation star to come swoop down and energize me. The problem I had was exercise—I wanted it, but I wasn’t getting it. I was in average-at-best shape and far away from my goals. After 10 years of trying and falling short of my fitness goals, I hoped for success, but expected the same results, and I would have gotten them had I not changed fitness habit strategies.
How “The One Push-up Challenge” Changed My Strategy
The motivation star never did come save me, but I was able to turn my life around in the most embarrassing way possible. I didn’t set the goal to climb every mountain in the world. I didn’t resolve to transform my fitness on the top of a mountain as I beat my chest like King Kong.
I decided to do a single push-up. Yeah, that’s it.
Michael Michalko’s book, Thinkertoys, is a creative thinking book that gave me this crazy idea. Michalko talks about a technique called False Faces, where you consider the opposite of what you’re currently thinking to see a full spectrum of possibilities. Regarding fitness, I was thinking of my big and intimidating goals, and “do one push-up” popped into my head as the opposite.
I scoffed at the idea… until I tried it. This tiny goal bloomed into a full workout that I couldn’t do “straight up.” Afterwards, I set the goal to do one push-up every day in 2013 and called it “The One Push-up Challenge.” I didn’t always do a lot more, but I always did something.
Then, I noticed the consistent, daily exercise, however small, was changing my brain. All forms of exercise were getting easier; I was forming a habit.
Daily exercise in small amounts is far more powerful than single, intense workout sessions. The former can become habit and destroy your resistance over time, while the latter makes you really sore for a few days and that’s about it. When my resistance to exercise had been whittled down, I began my current streak of going to the gym 3-6x a week. I haven’t looked back.
Why Mini Habits Work Every Time
I knew I was on to something. To exercise more is one thing, but to not have to face resistance to do it is game-changing. This “stupid” technique was like magic. My goals were “too small to fail,” and yet, not too small to matter. My results were significant and consistent—better than any other strategy I had tried (and I write about personal development every day, so I’ve tried almost everything).
During this time, I furiously researched. I found that:
- Getting motivated (i.e. trying to want to take action) is the world’s most popular strategy based on the number of books and websites that focus on it.
- Getting motivated is completely unreliable as it’s based on human feelings. How motivated are you to run laps when you feel completely exhausted?
- Willpower (forcing yourself to take action no matter what) is necessary to be consistent. This is because our feelings are always in flux.
- Willpower is a limited resource, which is why we can “burn out.” It can, however, be strengthened.
- Having weak willpower is a tricky problem that most people have and can’t solve, because it takes consistent willpower usage to strengthen willpower, but people tend to burn out before they can strengthen it.
These findings—combined with my personal experience in the last year—hit me like a linebacker. I could see exactly why the Mini Habits strategy worked so well. “This is it,” I thought. “This concept is the key to personal growth!” I retain this belief today.
As my weekly gym visits were already a moderate-strength habit, I added three more of these “mini habits.” I decided to write 50 words in my book, write 50 words in a blog post, and read 2 pages in a book every single day. That was 123 days ago. I’ve succeeded every day since then, save for 3 times I forgot to read.
But I’ve done more than hit my mark. Much more. Since starting these mini habits, I’ve written approximately 4x as much as previously and read 10x as many books (I wasn’t exactly a voracious reader before). You can see why the subtitle of the Mini Habits book, is “Smaller Habits, Bigger Results.” I wrote the book using the strategy inside the book (a nice built-in proof-of-concept). Mini Habits has already sold more than 1,000 copies worldwide in less than 30 days, largely due to word-of-mouth and very positive reviews.
The Powerful Fringe Benefits of Using Mini Habits
A couple months into my new mini habits, I decided to eat more “mega salads.” It wasn’t a resolution. It wasn’t a goal. I just… wanted to do it. When you take care of and invest in yourself every day, that mindset becomes a habit. There are so many extra benefits that come from following this simple method, that I could write another book about it. I will briefly list some of the additional benefits here:
Constant success creates more success
Failure is only valuable if you learn from it, and most people don’t learn from failing to reach their goals (they’re just discouraged). Failure is supposed to happen sometimes when you take a risk. Most goals we have are not risks, but 100% achievable outcomes—we should win that battle every time. Mini habits put preventable failure to rest, and as they say, success begets success.
No more guilt
When you always hit your target (and usually exceed it), prior feelings of guilt and inadequacy leave you quickly. It’s a welcome change if you’re used to overbearing goals that make you feel like crap.
This term describes your belief in your ability to impact outcomes (similar to confidence). Self-efficacy has been found to be a key influencer in goal success (source, and there are others). With high self-efficacy, you’re more likely to take action because you believe that action will not be in vain. Mini habits are like a self-efficacy training program—they train you to always expect to succeed. Even the smallest effort counts, which makes you feel more powerful.
This is the single best strategy for forming habits. Habits don’t require large or impressive numbers like 100 push-ups, they only require consistency. Mini habits guarantee that with “stupid small” goals that you can’t resist. Think about having 100 days to do 100 push-ups and two options—do them all on one day, or do one each day. Doing them all on one day is a flash in the pan. But spreading them out over time like that will form into a habit of one daily push-up, from which you can build higher. Habits are the single best foundation for further action and progress. (It doesn’t matter if they’re “mini.”)
One day, I may be an anti-motivational speaker, because I don’t believe in it as a starting strategy. But motivation is very useful. It influences the “willpower cost” of everything you do. If you’re motivated to do something, you don’t need willpower to do it, which is why people are drawn to motivation in the first place. Mini habits generate motivation in the same way that sparks ignite a fire. The small first step begins the process. And nothing is more motivating than seeing yourself take action! This is why I’m always exceeding my initial aim.
There are other benefits, and perhaps we’ll cover these in more detail at a later time. While Mini Habits is a simple strategy, it has a complex, smart, and scientific backing to it. For a more thorough analysis of the science of willpower, how habits form in the brain, and a step-by-step guide to succeed with your own mini habits, check out the Mini Habits book on Amazon.
Stephen Guise is the author of the best-selling, Mini Habits book, and the founder of Deep Existence—a blog about focusing, small steps, habits, and minimalism. He loves writing, psychology, football, basketball, traveling, and personal development.
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